READING / TIES THAT BIND - Create a deeper connection with lasting love / Digital book / PDF / Instant download
Everyone wants their dream partner and I did too but as an anxiously attached person it set me up to be used and abused. I abandoned myself, I had no boundaries. I was anxious to be loved. I was chasing and accepting anything I could get.
But.
This was far from what I wanted. For years I blamed them. The universe clearly trying to show me the truth and teach me the lessons I so blindly wouldn't learn. So I repeated it until I took full responsibility for my reality and my relationships.
They say the truth will set you free but first it will piss you off.
I was pissed at myself. I stood on the landing at my parents beach house as they traveled and thought about slitting my wrists. I was in a dark place. What was so wrong with me that I accepted this abuse and thought this was all I deserved?
I thought I was broken. Broken in a way I didn't know how I got here or how to begin to fix it. A lot was wrong, but not with me in my soul, but with the stories, beliefs and patterns I kept on repeat.
You deserve to have a relationship that makes you feel safe, expanded and like the best version of yourself. Everything changes for you in this moment.
Everyone wants their dream partner and I did too but as an anxiously attached person it set me up to be used and abused. I abandoned myself, I had no boundaries. I was anxious to be loved. I was chasing and accepting anything I could get.
But.
This was far from what I wanted. For years I blamed them. The universe clearly trying to show me the truth and teach me the lessons I so blindly wouldn't learn. So I repeated it until I took full responsibility for my reality and my relationships.
They say the truth will set you free but first it will piss you off.
I was pissed at myself. I stood on the landing at my parents beach house as they traveled and thought about slitting my wrists. I was in a dark place. What was so wrong with me that I accepted this abuse and thought this was all I deserved?
I thought I was broken. Broken in a way I didn't know how I got here or how to begin to fix it. A lot was wrong, but not with me in my soul, but with the stories, beliefs and patterns I kept on repeat.
You deserve to have a relationship that makes you feel safe, expanded and like the best version of yourself. Everything changes for you in this moment.
Everyone wants their dream partner and I did too but as an anxiously attached person it set me up to be used and abused. I abandoned myself, I had no boundaries. I was anxious to be loved. I was chasing and accepting anything I could get.
But.
This was far from what I wanted. For years I blamed them. The universe clearly trying to show me the truth and teach me the lessons I so blindly wouldn't learn. So I repeated it until I took full responsibility for my reality and my relationships.
They say the truth will set you free but first it will piss you off.
I was pissed at myself. I stood on the landing at my parents beach house as they traveled and thought about slitting my wrists. I was in a dark place. What was so wrong with me that I accepted this abuse and thought this was all I deserved?
I thought I was broken. Broken in a way I didn't know how I got here or how to begin to fix it. A lot was wrong, but not with me in my soul, but with the stories, beliefs and patterns I kept on repeat.
You deserve to have a relationship that makes you feel safe, expanded and like the best version of yourself. Everything changes for you in this moment.